
Hello there Lynn and all you other prison employees,
let me tell you where I was at the very minute my son
left walking down the driveway with (Terri ) the girl
that was killed that night on the motorcycle in October
1990. I was standing at the kitchen window cooking
dinner, and told him to hurry back because dinner would
soon be ready. I asked him not to leave but he said he
had to take terri to work. I told him to give her the
keys and let her go by herself. He said no she wants
me to take her.
Her boy friend had beat her up
that afternoon, my son felt sorry for her and her
young baby, who was less than a year old.
When he
got her to work, which was at a bar. She had lied to
my son she did not have to go to work. She only said
that just to get away from the boy friend, and she knew
my son had money. He drove her on a motorcycle.
She literally took his wallet as it was
laying on the table and started buying herself drinks. He
stayed with her because, he was worried about her and
the baby who had been left with the boyfriend. He tried
many times to get her to return back to my
house.
Little did I know at the time that the boyfriend
and the baby was in the cottage behind my house, which
was my son's living quarters.
I had purchased
diapers and milk for the baby on numerous occasions
because, my son would beg me to do so. He was very
protective of that baby even though it was not his.
Mark, my son had been blind in his left eye since
child birth from extensive oxygen use which killed the
optic nerve in the left eye. Plus there was minor brain
damage in three different areas of the brain from early
oxygen deprivation following the c-section of his
birth at 32 weeks into the pregnancy.
To sum up a
long story at 1:07 a.m. the motorcycle clipped the
right rear side
of a street sweeper. They were headed south on Stine
Road in Bakersfield.
Mark said Terri had
wanted to go out to White Lane to try and get her car
started, where she had parked and left her car because it
had broken down on her earlier that day.
There
were no witnesses. Terri was killed on impact as the
left side of her head was taken off by the street
sweeper and every pelvic bone in her body was broken.
Mark was thrown from the motorcycle. Broke every
rib in his body and punctured his lungs. His left arm
just above the elbow was almost severed, and his spleen
burst on impact with the concrete.
Mark was
wearing a light weight, light tan jacket. Test showed
there was not any of Terri's blood or brain matter or
saliva on the back of his jacket.
Mark spent 21
days in the hospital in a coma. Which I paid for along
with the health insurance I had on him.
When
my niece called me and said Mark and a girl had been
killed in a
motorcycle wreck, she had heard it on the
radio.
I began calling and doing everything to locate
someone who knew something. I also went to the cottage and
found the door locked. finally after a long period of
knocking on the door. The boyfriend, (Doug, which his
mother was a school teacher in Bakersfield.) He
finally opened the door and I saw the baby crawling around
on the floor. I started screaming at him "where is Mark
and Terri, didn't they come home last night, where
have you been all night"? He appeared dazed and possibly
drunk." I asked him how he got into the cottage, he
said he had been there asleep the whole night. He said
he was there when they left on the motorcycle. I was
screaming, "and who's been taking care of this baby
that's crawling on the floor"? I told him to get dressed
and get into my house, we had to find Terri and Mark.
He didn't appear to be any more interested than a man
in the moon.
I had begged Doug a thousand times
in the past
not to keep repairing that motorcycle. He did so he
would have transportion at my son's expense. Mark
couldn't repair anything. Doug always drove the motorcycle.
I asked him why he didn't take Terri to work if he was
there when they left. He told me he was drunk and
wanted to sleep, so Terri got Mark to take her. I wanted
him out of my house. So I gave him some money for a
motel room, milk and food for the baby.
I know
Mark never drove at night because of his eyesight. When
Mark came out of the coma, he said he had stopped the
motorcycle in a parking lot at the corner of Stockdale
Hwy and Stine Road and had let Terri drive. Shortly
after that she hit the street sweeper, he said he had
reached to grab the handle bar with his left hand when
he saw the rear of the street sweeper but it was too
late.
the tip of his left little finger had been
cut off during the accident. I hired a lawyer by the
name of Doug Moffet in Bakersfied. Moffet was upset
with Mark
because he would not plead guilty and take a plea
bargain of manslaughter. I tried to talk to Mark, but
there was no way to talk him out of his decision that he
was not guilty. It went to a Jury trial. Doug
allegedly told the D.A. that I tried to bribe him into
testifying when I gave him the money. Doug Moffet refused to
put me on the witness stand because, the D.A. had
threatened to prosecute me if I testified. I insisted on
testifying anyway but he would never call me to
testify.
Mark did take the witness stand in his
own defense. When he was asked if he had taken a
driving school for a previous DUI. Mark said no because, it
was several years back and he did not remember. The
D.A. pulled out the driving school record.
The jury
obviously took it that he was lying. I don't believe
that they took into account that he had just been in a
coma for 21 days. The court did order a Positron
Emission Tomography test (PET test) on Mark's brain, and
they recommendd an
MRI follow up because, there appeard to be some areas
of decreased uptake in the PET test. The attorney Doug
Moffet failed to ask the Court to order the MRI saying
he was not a doctor and he had no idea what this all
would prove anyway. He refused to believe that Mark had
brain damage.
Long story short, Mark was found
guilty of second degree murder, vehicular Felony
Manslaughter and driving on a suspended license.
District Attorney Ed Jagels pulled every law he could find
and charged Mark with everyone of them. Since Mark's
conviction of 2nd degree murder there have been 11
others charged with 2nd degree murder in Kern County for
similar charges.
Terri Parnell's blood alcohol
level at the time of the wreck was 3.2 Mark's alcohol
level was 1.0
the Jury could not believe that she
could be driving with an alcohol content of that level.
Little did the Jury know that drinking alcohol with
that young Mother (Terri) who was approximately 23 years
old was an
every day event, and was allegedly a seasoned
alcoholic. Child Protective Services had already taken two
(2) other natural born children from her and placed them
under their custody and care. This new baby was the
son by Doug.
Well if you have read this far, I
will bore you with what really saddens me beyond any
stretch of the imagination.
I was prepared to
let Mark die in the hospital. He fought to live and did
live. Mark was trying to help Terri, not kill her. He
was trying to protect her and her baby. Soon after
Mark was sent to prison the Child Protective Agency
allegedly took the baby from Doug.
Terri had told
me that her family did not care anything about her.
that her mother hated her, and would not help her
financially with the baby. On many ocassions I drove Terri
and her baby to the store and bought milk and diapers
for her. It made me very sad and very worried to see
these young people in such a desperate method of living.
I was
continually trying to help them, and at the same time
keep my son at home, and his so-called friends at an
arms distance, where I could look after a safe
enviroment for my son Mark because, I knew Mark could never
hold down a job. At the time of the motorcycle wreck
Mark was 24 years old. Just a couple of months prior to
this event I had gotten Mark on social Security
Disability. Before that I had supported him by myself. I did
that because, I realized that I would not live forever
and Mark would need some financial assistance should I
die. It was the Social Security Disability money that
was in Mark's wallet the night of the fatal accident.
The wallet was empty when it was finally given to me.
Until this day I keep that wallet in my suitcase, and
it goes everywhere with me as a reminder of what too
much money can do to someone when they cannot control
their own affairs. I had begged the Social Security not
to mail those checks to Mark but the refused to assign
him a payee
as I had requested.
I am not blaming anyone
for Mark's tragedy and the sentence of 20 years to
life. The Court did what they thought was best to protect
the public at the time. They were not aware of all the
facts or I believe the outcome would have been much
different. I did not have enough money to buy justice. A
couple of months after the trial the Attorney Doug
Moffet claimed to me that he lost all of Mark's records.
He even wrote a letter stating he was an ineffective
counsel.
To date I have spent well over
$50,000.00 on Attorneys trying to prove this wrong to the
Courts. Only to have attorneys fail to act as they claim
they will when I pay them, and then refuse to refund
my money.
In actuality Mark should have died at
birth but the doctor did what he thought was the right
thing by making every effort to superceed mother
nature and saved Mark's life. I don't blame the doctor.
However, I have been the one that had to live with the
doctor's
decision, and Mark has paid the price his entire life
from the results of the brain damage.
There is
not a day that passes that I do not think of Terri and
her baby. If I could I would have let Mark go to
release him from his suffering. I would have done almost
anything to have saved Terri's life for the sake of her
baby. That
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